Gameless and shameless

Ok I admit that I am totally gameless. Yes girls find me attractive enough to pursue, in other words they look at my profile on the online dating site and they are like well this guy looks ok and his profile seems ok so they message me and they are interested. What I mean by gameless is that I have no game. I don't seem to have a problem with the attraction phase but after that I get totally lost. I think I say the wrong things or I ask the wrong questions. I also think that maybe I reveal too much or simply that I reveal the wrong things and that I need to choose more carefully when I am talking to these girls. I said I was going to read some websites that explain how to have better game etc but I never did. I am not sure that simply reading these website will help. I think I might learn better by trial and error so that is what I am going to do for now. When I am done writing this blog entry I am going to read through all the messages I have ever sent to these girls and read all of my MSN chat logs to see where I might have gone wrong.

I am pretty sure I need to bring out my more sensitive side if I have one. I can't think how I am used to thinking. I can't be the hunter gatherer anymore. I need to be like the guy in the ad in GQ Magazine all suave and shit. Ok I changed my mind, I AM going to read some websites about what to do once you are on a date. I think I have seen before some lists of things to say or not to say when you are on a date. Meh. I am just going to stop here and start reading.