Hi everyone and welcome back to my blog. I did go over to Monique's house to have her cook me dinner and watch a movie. I guess kids call it watching a DVD these days but whatever its the same shit at the end of day. The food she made was not bad, but not that good. She wasn't as loose as she was when we went out the first time. I thought I was gonna be able to bang her but it never evolved to that. We fooled around a bit but she like wanted to watch the movie when I was kissing her, and I was in my head like bitch fuck the movie let's get it on, this is what people do they get together and rent a dvd and then they barely watch it because they make out the whole time, well this dumbass wanted to actually watch the movie, so I was like wtf yo and I left her place around 11pm and I never talked to her again. She never even emailed me so I guess the feeling was mutual but I was confused as to why she decided to invite me over in the first place. This is just another example of how fucked up female thinking is.

That bad experience aside, I believe I am starting to understand women more. Lol as I type this sentence I realize how dumb it sounds. I don't know shit about women lol that is why I am single in the first place. Anyways, I digress. Let me move on to another girl that seems to be working out better. I met this girl named Hanna who manages a spa. I am like damn this girl must have really soft skin because she works at a spa. I was always wondering if she would give me a pedicure sometime or something lol. I assume that when you go out with a girl that does something like this it comes wit fringe benefits just like it would with a masseuse. The only thing I was thinking though is that maybe it will end up being like it was on Seinfeld when he dated the girl masseuse. He wanted a massage and she got all pissy and was like yo that is not how I roll. Speaking of yo, I still need to watch this week's episode of Breaking Bad, man I love Jessie Pinkman lol. Hank is totally not going to die I think. I can't wait until Dexter comes back on, dying to see that show.

So I met this girl Hanna for coffee the first time I met her which was 2 weeks ago. Sorry I am only blogging about this shit now and not sooner. I really should be more diligent in my bloggin so sowwy. I met her for coffee at this really cool place here in Charlotte called Dilworth Coffee House. The place is really cool inside and was pretty busy when I showed up there around 3pm on a Sunday. She arrived a few minutes later and damn she looked good when she walked in. She was a little heavier than I though she was from looking at her pictures but that seems to be a common theme with these girls online. They are like ninjas in their ability to pose for the camera in such a fashion that makes them appear smaller than they do in real life. Anyways, we sat and talked for a couple of hours and I was really attracted to her. The place was quite crowded and I didn't really have a chance to kiss her or anything so I played it cool and just left. I have been out with her 2 other times since then but I don't have time to get into all that right now, will save that for the next blog entry assuming we are still seeing each other by then.

I have a lot of good news to report and I am not even sure where I should begin. Like I said in my last post, I had redone my profile and I had browsed through the online dating site and I had sent out a lot of messages to the new girls that had joined the site. I got a few messages back so what I did, was I was logging in everyday and clicking on this thing called new users where it shows you only the girls that have joined in the last 24 hours. I prefer to do it this way because let's face it, I have already looked through all the girls that are members of the online dating site that live close to me so if those girls haven't replied yet, they probably never will which is fine by me. The good thing about messaging the new users is that they haven't been approached by a lot of guys yet and they are obviously still single. So you get to them first and hopefully form a connection before they meet someone else. The thing is, I have gone through the whole site and some of the girls I was really attracted to that I messaged, they had been on the site for a month already, so while their profile is still up and stuff, some of them are already seeing someone and won't go out with you until they figure out if anything good is going to happen with that guy.

There are about 5 girls that I am actively talking to either online through the dating site messaging system or on MSN. I obviously try and get the girl to talk me on MSN but some girls don't use MSN which is just fucked up I mean, I don't care if you don't use it yet, fucking get it duh. Some times I lose my patience with women and how flakey they are. Anyways I have only been out on one date so far. It was on Saturday with this girl named Monique. She is 25 years old and she works for an entertainment company in human resources. Human resources has got to be the biggest fucking joke of a job if I ever saw one. They don't really do shit except be annoying and manage the payroll and gay shit like that. I told her to take a cab and meet me at this place called Mimosa Grill. It has been around since 1995 and it caters to farmers and farmers i like the main theme there. It was pretty expensive but the portions were big. I had the HICKORY GRILLED BEEF TENDERLOIN and she had the PAN SEARED ALASKAN HALIBUT. I dunno why people order fish in a nice restaurant unless it is a seafood joint. That is how I roll anyways. I will almost always get chicken, beef, or lamb.

We had some drinks and ate our food, we were both really hungry so we didn't actually talk too much during dinner we pretty much just had our faces in our food and were eating like madmen. We really were. After dinner we ordered some coffee and sat and talked a lot more. She told me that her last relationship was with this guy in the army and that they were together for 3 years and he wanted to have children and stuff but she totally wasn't into having kids at such a young age and ending up as some trailer trash ho with 3 kids. I dunno what it is with young girls having kids. They always end up single at 30 years old. Now they are these washed up skanky looking fat hoes with kids. There are tons of those women on the dating site but I just skip over them. Anyways she was pretty good company but I was in a bitchy mood. The conversations we had were not bad, I would like to sit here and say I had a great time but I didn't, it was just average. A few times she cracked some jokes and they weren't funny at all and I tried to pretend to laugh but I'm pretty sure I did a shitty job with that. When we left the restaurant, we hopped in a taxi and we headed to her place to drop her off. When we got to her place I was thinking just get out, I don't really like our personality. I just kinda sat there like bye, and she waned to kis me I guess so she leaned over and took the bull by the horns and kissed me. She was a much better kisser than she was a conversationalist. I have talked to her a few times since there and she said she wants me to come over this weekend so that she can cook me dinner and stuff. I told her I would come over on Sat but I am not sure if I am going to go. I may just blow her off, haven't decided yet.